Can u help being unconditional?

Much to my chagrin, I learnt to be unconditional at a rather late age. It looked insane to people, well wishers for the most, who were worried about where this would lead. Nowhere, was my confident answer. An answer I did not mind in the least. But to those who heard it, it sounded pretty fatalistic. Well, what can one do? The raised eyebrows and wounded looks were usually followed by an exhaustive list of reasons meant to stop me from being unconditional. As if that is a choice I have. Have people really forgotten about the basics of the heart? There are no reasons. The heart has its own skewed logic which it follows with a fierce tenacity.